Individuality And Personality

Individuality represents gifts and talents, qualities that God purposefully designed and uniquely assigned. The individuality of a person is the sum of those qualities, identifying one person from another; the essence of an individual.

Having a free will, a person chooses how to express their individuality. Each is called upon to decide their own values which then lead to consequential outcomes. From externally dictated social conduct one can either independently decide a mindset of acceptance (relationship) or of defiance (isolation) within the freedom of or desire of their own will.

Every independent human possesses an inalienable right to their personal life presentation. However that right, when from rationality, begins realizing a possible maturing inter-dependency in their exchange with other individuals. Social interactions can become a valuable source of personality development; giving opportunity to adjust thought and reaction.

The principle of individual rights is the only moral base of all groups. The smallest minority, a person, quickly discovers character can be expressed in concepts of dependencies or independence. Postulated (assumed as true) expressed independence however may lead not to freedom but isolation, alienation, and ultimately destruction.

When one’s individuality is expressed to others, whether verbal or non-verbal, innate gifts and talents are externalized; viewed by others as personality. Personality is the attitude attached to individuality. Character traits turned outward enunciates essence, resulting in either establishing or destroying relationships.

Nothing is known about a person that is not seen in the experience of expression. Individuality exists, simple, yet immediate, finding expressed pathways, even from chosen alienation, in the mind and action of others.

Not until consciousness has given up hope of overcoming alienated isolation does it turn to understanding itself from the viewpoint of others. Overcoming alienation awakens to understand my-personality; a desire to be aware of how others see me.


Reflecting from how others see me, self-hood can either be grasped as a Creative Spirit or as a destructive spirit. Two spirits are always present in the framework of each day. The spirit of independence via ‘imposed’ external stimuli (expressions from other people), or the dependent Spirit of the Creator via the same ‘imposed’ external stimuli, is the ongoing focus of this article.

Some believe that people are passively shaped by their environments. Others think that people actively participate with their environment. However pre-existing personality traits triggered by exterior situational factors, predict short term instinctively reactive-behaviors supporting the phantom independent-image.

This is seen as the need-gratifying pleasure-principle. Attention-getting reactive ‘instincts’ surface from underlying rational deprivations. Instinctual behavior reacts negatively on mental, emotional, and motivational maturity. Instinctual behavior can be seen as dead-end activities that agitate emotions and affects personal health; a human phenomenon.

Others believe that quiet, confident, and considered participatory input, whether verbal or in a supportive presence, facilitates a non-reactive posture. The ability to hear a person out without instinctual emotional reactions is received as beneficially supportive to a Spirit maturing process. This accepting posture alleviates the feeling of alienation in another. A healthy quiet, confident internal Spirit impacts the expressive exchange.

The blinding insistence of self-gratification can begin to transform into a considered uplifting sense in self and others. Relinquishing over-demanding self-gratification, begins an outward supportive personality expression; a maturing Spirit, which positively imprints the personality of others. It allows a thought about hidden negative qualities in their personality.

This mental awareness evolves into new positive language toward healthy human maturation. Quietness and confidence, delivers the strength of New Life to both participants. Personality-consideration opened when humanity was given the Door, Christ Jesus, to return to the original ways of being individual.

Negative-spirited personalities re-establishes fear of rejection surfacing during the 3-4 year puberty period. Rejection, fearful isolation, and abandonment becomes the basis of ill-health/dis-ease.

Parental/social input, established during childhood, before rationality, will slowly give way to rationality. Born with normal childhood dependency expectations (crying elicits comfort) puberty replaces, with rational abilities. Dependencies begin to replace independent (so-called), non-comforting, non-parenting mindsets, often referred to as the isolating ‘generation gap’.

The generation gap features a mother/father not willing to transform from parenting. The focus of child is to move into adulthood (self-parenting) but still experiencing feelings of childhood-behavior corrections. A parent can not be, without a child; child cannot be, without parent. Mother/father and new-adult, both are experiencing mixed behaviors of childhood, parenthood, and adulthood during the puberty hormonal-period. Positional behaviors trigger emotional outbursts compelling alienation of affections and confidence; isolation.

To maintain independence a search for aberrant dependent-comfort becomes a focus. Rationality however, understands humanity is not basically independent but dependent, seeking healthier lifestyles from identified needs and independently choosing mutually uplifting dependencies.

Faced with the thought of a life partner awakens the dependency experience. It means giving up the ‘taking’ experience, for a relationship of giving and receiving physical and emotional comfort. It also means surrendering isolation, the societal form of self-protection, more aptly named ‘rejection’. Adulthood wraps itself with acceptance called ‘oneness of two’.

Personality response based on instincts, can be altered with the acceptance of God’s original participatory plan, ‘it is not good to be alone’. The transformation begins by returning to the creative plan, rejected by the first two humans who considered their reactive, sensually instinctive behavior was a more informed and enlightening expression of individuality.

Enlightenment rationality, ‘freedom of the will’, recognizes the limitations of expressive personality from independent-isolation. Freedom permits individuality flow, encapsulated in each person, into healthy, supportive expressiveness. God’s plan endows with the new language, the new tongue.

Prayer: Father in Heaven give me the wisdom to understand the difference between Your way and my way. Help me to use my gifts and talents to support healthy Joy and Peace living; real relationships. Forgive my destructiveness. The inner strength of Your giving Spirit from a new tongue of quietness and confidence is what I need and desire through Christ Jesus. Amen

Individual and Commercial Electrical Gadgets and Appliances

Varieties of individual and commercial electrical gadgets have been developed to suit various requirements of people like USB player, food processor, FM radio, speaker, wireless CCTV camera, etc. These gadgets are very helpful in performing various activities of our daily life thereby saving manual energy and time and reducing stress at work. They are also used for many other benefits like entertainment, monitoring health and providing safety to us.

For kitchen use, there are plenty of electrical appliances available like electrical stoves, ovens, sandwich makers, toasters, electric cookers, electric kettles, chapatti or roti makers, coffee makers, juicers, mixers, grinders, blenders, chopper/slicers, various food processors, ice makers and fridge, etc. All these electrical gadgets have made the kitchen work easier for women. It eases the cooking process and the time involved in cooking.

For house cleaning and hygiene purpose, there are many appliances like vacuum cleaners, steam mop cleaners, automatic air purifiers and air fresheners, shoe polishing machines, etc. With the help of these machines, home and office environment can be maintained with cleanliness and hygiene.

For safety, privacy and emergency purposes, you can look to some electrical gadgets like flash light torch, invertor, electric door lock, electric bell, video door phone, etc. All these electrical gadgets are generally meant for individual and personal use of people.

There are some other electrical gadgets which are used for commercial and public purposes like GPS navigator and wireless CCTV camera, etc. GPS navigators are commonly used to locate the position of a person on the global map. It also helps him in locating the routes to reach a particular destination and also in knowing some other additional information like distance, climate and available hotels or other places at the destination. The wireless CCTV camera is being popularly used nowadays at all public places like banks, airports, hotels, ATMs, shopping malls, parking places, subways and lifts also as a safety measure. It is very useful in preventing crimes. Further it is very largely used by traffic police for controlling traffic jams at all junctions of roads. It is also used for communicating at public places and large functions, in subways and lifts, etc. in times of emergency.

For bathrooms and body grooming purposes, you can use washing machines, clothes dryers, water heaters, hand and body dryers, electronic shavers and other body grooming kits, etc. with the help of which you are able to keep yourselves well groomed, trim and smart.

For entertainment purpose you have a vast range of appliances like USB player sets, hi-fi TV sets and LCD sets, home theatres, DVD players, CD players, FM Radio sets, MP3 players, walkie-talkies, video games, speakers, voice recorders, head phones, car audio and video systems, iPhones, cameras, iBall and iPods, set top boxes of various cable TV service providers, etc.

All these electrical gadgets have indeed made our life easy, enjoyable and secure. It is difficult to think a life of modern man without most of these electrical gadgets and appliances.